@Anonymous "my boyfriend complains that i dont ride him good. I try to do and i even enjoy doing it but its uncomfortable with him. I have never this be an issue in past relationships. i think the issue is his waist is extremely narrow(he is very thin) and im a curvy girl(wider hips not fat) so its hard for me to find a comfortable position on top of him. Then once i get up there i don't know what to do because every move i try his dick doesnt stay hard. Any tips on how or what to try???"
There are tons of ways to ride a guy, to learn new techniques you could always watch some riding porn videos, but I’ll give you four things that work for me.
The first is booty popping fast…
…to keep the same speed that most guys do when they’re in control.
The next is alternating swirling his dick in and out of you with basic up and down motions, which benefits the both of you.
The third is switching his position to viewing you ass, which might make it a little easier for him to embrace your curvy girl weight.
The last is using Kegel exercises with basic movements, so that it feels tight while he’s going in and out of you.
Your problem might be that his smaller frame can’t handle your curvy weight, so lifting your butt up and not pounding down on him too hard will help him enjoy your moves more.
- 1 year ago
@Anonymous "where is a good place to have public sex"
The best public space to have sex is any place where the thrill of getting caught is there the entire time.
If you’re a quiet fucker, my friend said a movie theater is a good place. I’d try the back of a pretty empty theatre though, and a possibly loud action packed film for beginners in the public sex arena.
Public bathrooms are good too, but they don’t really feel that public. The only thrill besides the sex of course is getting in and out of the bathroom without getting caught. Start with the less occupied ones like a mall/department store restroom and move up to the busy stops like a restaurant bathroom.
If you can be discreet about things the beach is also a decent place. Bring a blanket for the ground of course and an umbrella to block some people’s view or a throw or beach towel to go over you. The only downside would be sand; one grain could ruin everything. If your beach has grassy areas to sit try those first.
A house party in a not so secluded room (laundry room) isn’t too bad if you don’t get caught by people taking pictures.
I can’t really think of any other places right now…but if more come to me I’ll post them later.
- 1 year ago
@Anonymous "My fiancee is afraid to be a rough during sex and sometimes throw the mood off. He thinks he is going to hurt me. We have a safety word but it is pointless because he always stops even-though I am fine. how can i get him to be rough without worrying about me. also is there any way he can increase his endurance ,get him to relax and stop over thinking during sex?"
I had that same problem with my ex. You just have to start with little things. Push lightly against his thighs when he’s on top/ in control but tell him to go deeper and harder. Role play will also help. He could be a cop and you could be resisting arrest (not too intensely) until he has to pin you down and give you a punishment of his own.
If that doesn’t work you might have to be the rough one at first and hope that he’ll match your roughness.
You could even place his hand where you want it and tell him what you want him to do with it. Place it around your neck and tell him to choke you.
A lot of guys think rough sex involves dragging a girl by her hair, making her practically throw up while she’s giving them head, and making her cry when their having sex and that may be in your range or not, but for your fiancée it may seem too abusive to try on someone he loves.
So watching rough sex porn together to get in the mood that you think is at the same level of roughness that you can manage might help him realize how far is too far and what is acceptable to you.
- 1 year ago